12.02.2010

Romans 12...Glory!

One of my former high school students (now a Clemson Tiger - woot!) posted this on facebook yesterday - and I LOVE this translation (The Message) of Romans 12! The language is beautifully written to cater to this day and age:


Romans 12
1 So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him.2 Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you, and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you.
3 I’m speaking to you out of deep gratitude for all that God has given me, and especially as I have responsibilities in relation to you. Living then, as every one of you does, in pure grace, it’s important that you not misinterpret yourselves as people who are bringing this goodness to God. No, God brings it all to you. The only accurate way to understand ourselves is by what God is and by what he does for us, not by what we are and what we do for him.
4 In this way we are like the various parts of a human body. Each part gets its meaning from the body as a whole, not the other way around.5 The body we’re talking about is Christ’s body of chosen people. Each of us finds our meaning and function as a part of his body. But as a chopped-off finger or cut-off toe we wouldn’t amount to much, would we? So since we find ourselves fashioned into all these excellently formed and marvelously functioning parts in Christ’s body, 6 let’s just go ahead and be what we were made to be, without enviously or pridefully comparing ourselves with each other, or trying to be something we aren’t. If you preach, just preach God’s Message, nothing else;7 if you help, just help, don’t take over; if you teach, stick to your teaching;8 if you give encouraging guidance, be careful that you don’t get bossy; if you’re put in charge, don’t manipulate; if you’re called to give aid to people in distress, keep your eyes open and be quick to respond; if you work with the disadvantaged, don’t let yourself get irritated with them or depressed by them. Keep a smile on your face.
9 Love from the center of who you are; don’t fake it. Run for dear life from evil; hold on for dear life to good.10 Be good friends who love deeply; practice playing second fiddle.
11 Don’t burn out; keep yourselves fueled and aflame. Be alert servants of the Master,12 cheerfully expectant. Don’t quit in hard times; pray all the harder.13 Help needy Christians; be inventive in hospitality.
14 Bless your enemies; no cursing under your breath.15 Laugh with your happy friends when they’re happy; share tears when they’re down.16 Get along with each other; don’t be stuck-up. Make friends with nobodies; don’t be the great somebody.
17 Don’t hit back; discover beauty in everyone.18 If you’ve got it in you, get along with everybody.19 Don’t insist on getting even; that’s not for you to do. “I’ll do the judging,” says God. “I’ll take care of it.”
20 Our Scriptures tell us that if you see your enemy hungry, go buy that person lunch, or if he’s thirsty, get him a drink. Your generosity will surprise him with goodness. 21 Don’t let evil get the best of you; get the best of evil by doing good.

Glory. Beauty. Amen.

12.01.2010

I'm still thankful [and a little ashamed...]

Wow! I totally bombed this thankful everyday thing. I haven't updated since what, November 18? Shameful. Haha - but what can I say, life got in the way. But alas! I WILL complete my list :)

November 19: Awanita Valley (pronounced Ah•WAHN•it•ah)
A beautiful youth retreat camp I've been going to for about 10 years now! Every year students get to spend a weekend away in the beautiful foothills of upstate SC and experience a real, powerful, intimate God. This year was my 10th year!

November 20: My Jeep
It's so easy to overlook the everyday convenience of having reliable transportation! I'm thankful for every dent, ding and scratch on Gray, my blue jeep! :)

November 21: Clemson University
I'm thankful for my education, memories, friendships, degree, and everything I learned during that chapter of my life. I'm always proud to wear my purple and orange - even when our football team disappoints!

November 22: My MacBook!
I love my mac. I'll admit - I'm part of the apple cult. I'm not a total apple-junkie though, seeing as how I've never owned an ipod (yes, it's true). But I love everything about my computer. Except the broken disc drive. But that's what I've got applecare for :)

November 23: A Steady Income
My salary is just enough. Not too little to enjoy life, and not too much that it makes me greedy. I can pay all my bills comfortably, and still have some play money - which takes budgeting, but I'm pretty satisfied. I'm blessed. I'm safely in the middle :)

November 24: Facebook
Sounds silly? But just think of how useful it actually is! When you cut down the wasting time (which I do way too much of) think of how much you rely on facebook to get in touch with people whom you may not have their email or phone number? Or to easily share pictures of fun times? Or to just say "hey!". Seriously, what did we do without it. We definitely weren't as social!

November 25: THANKSGIVING DAY!
I'm thankful for every part of this day! The amazing food, the quality time with my family (both of them!), the turkey-coma nap in the afternoon - and don't forget waking up at 3 am for some Black Friday Shopping!!

Happy {belated} Thanksgiving to all my friends. Blessings!

11.18.2010

November 16-18: three more i'm thankful for!

November 16: My adorable apartment!
Had some great friends over for a little dinner party tonight - and it reminded me of how thankful I am to have such a perfect little apartment all to myself. I love everything about my humble abode! It's a perfect blessing for this time in my life, to live alone and do what I please....before I have a permanent roommate ;)

November 17: The beauty of pure worship

(Pause the music at the bottom of my blog to watch the video!) I cannot watch this video without crying! Thinking of the gravity of these lyrics, and seeing the pure, uninhibited worship coming from RoseAngela is so powerful. I'm thankful for the gift being able to worship a God who loves us enough to rescue us from the death we deserve!

November 18: Seel's on Sullivans
So many memories have been made here, and on Sunday, they will close their doors for good. From the time Seel's was a tiny hole-in-the-wall off of LongPoint road, my family has loved eating here! Great fried seafood and a fun atmosphere. Then, when they moved to Sullivan's my roommates and I used to love Sunday brunch on the patio and late night dancing to DJ C-nile in Off the Hook. So tonight my family is going for dinner one last time. And I'll be sure to say Thanks Seel's, for giving me so many treasured memories!

11.15.2010

November 13-15. Bike Rides, Birthdays and a Band.

November 13: Bike Rides!
 
I've had my cruiser for a while now (it was a must while living on an island!) and last week, David finally got one too!! So Saturday morning we met up at his house then biked to a little local cafe for brunch! It was a beautiful day, perfect for some outside, fresh air, quality time!

November 14: Birthday Girl Chanell!
I'm thankful for Chanell today, especially since it's her birthday!! Couldn't ask for a better neighbor, best friend, and (perhaps) future sister-in-law!

November 15: Bandmates at LifePark!
not the best picture, but it's the only one with all of us in it!
I'm so thankful for being a part of the Worship Band at LifePark. We have so much fun making music together all to worship Jesus! Every member of the band has a special place in my heart!

11.12.2010

November 11: Wisdom of Friends. November 12: Charlie!

November 11: the wisdom of my friends
Lately, I've been seeking a lot of advice from some of the most important [and wise] friends in my life. The beauty of this is that they love me enough to give me un-biased answers. They're not sugar-coating what they think. These are the people who don't care if the truth hurts, they will give me the words I need. So, Kimi, Christin, and Devin, you three mean the world to me!!
Me and Christin
Me and Devin
Me and Kimi
November 12: My Charlie!
Nothing's better than coming home to someone so excited to see me he jumps and dances and kisses me all over. And at night, I can always count on this little stinker to sleep curled up as close as he can get. He loves snuggling, and I love him! I'll never doubt the benefit of having a dog - nothing makes me feel loved and needed quite like him :)
This was the first day I got him! (the date's wrong)

And this is what my little booger looks like now!



11.10.2010

November 10: Lunch Dates with Daddy.

If there's a definition of a daddy's girl, I'm it. My daddy is my hero, my role model, and the one I tell anything to. I'm super close with my mom too, but me and my dad operate much more similarly.
There aren't words to describe how much I love my dad. And since he works so close to my house, we usually eat lunch together at least once a week! These little lunches mean the world to me...we had a lunch date today!
at Sissy's Rehearsal Dinner, Dec. 5, 2008

11.09.2010

Jumping on the THANKFUL bandwagon!

I've seen on facebook the "Thankfulness Challenge" and thought it was cool. Then I saw it on my sister's blog and decided I want to do it! The challenge is to list something you're thankful for every day in November, leading up to Thanksgiving. I'm a little behind the 8 ball, but I'll catch up by posting 9 today.

November 1: Being a Fraylick. 
I can't express how thankful I am for my family. Maybe it's a southern thing, but we've always been really close, and when I think of my best friends, it's always my family. 

November 2: My High School Sweetheart.
One of these days he might be family too! ;) 

November 3: LifePark.
LifePark has shown me 'Life', after graduating college and wondering "What Comes Next?"
Come with me sometime!

November 4: Girlfriends.
These two know me better than most. I would be REALLY thankful if they still lived in Charleston...

November 5: My creativity.
I love designing, painting, drawing, songwriting, journaling, and even blogging! I'm thankful for these gifts God has given me to be able to express myself!

November 6: Meeting Ellie!
My cousin had her first baby on Friday, Nov. 5....Such a perfect little girl!

November 7: A Cause to Care about.
Today was the walk for raising suicide prevention awareness. I'm thankful for the opportunity, and thankful that so many people supported my "Out of the Darkness" Walk team. 

November 8: My LifeGroup. 
Sharing Life with other people who love the Lord is invaluable to your walk of faith! I've developed friends and relationships that I couldn't find elsewhere. (This is not all of us!)

November 9: My "Baby" Sister - Happy 17th Birthday!
I know I already said family, but I'm especially thankful for her today because it's her birthday!

More Thankfulness to come!!